Shabbat in Poland



The steps up to the Synagogue in Beit Warshawa
When we were in Poland, we had the opportunity to celebrate Shabbat with the local Reform synagogue in Warsaw called Beit Warshawa. When we were seated, we were greeted by the Rabbi and president of the synagogue, along with the rest of the congregants. At the beginning of the service, Ariella was invited up to light the Shabbat candles, and we were introduced to the community in both Polish and English. When the service was starting, I got nervous because maybe I wouldn't know any of the tunes. However, I soon realized that I knew the majority of the tunes from my Havurah (synagogue) at home. We were alsp told that there were 9 new congregants who had just been at the Beit Din earlier that week in order to convert to Judaism. This was an amazing surprise and opportunity to be able to help welcome these 9 Jews into the Jewish community and to watch them join a really special kehillah. Each of them recited the Sh'ma while holding the Torah, and after, the congregation would say a special phrase that meant "You are our brother/sister".
Kiddush at Beit Warshawa
Following the service, we joined the community in kiddush and ate a meal with them, including traditional Polish dumplings, or pierogi. At my table, one of the men who had just converted to Judaism sat with us. His name was Max and my table was lucky enough to hear about him and his story. Max told us that he became Jewish because there was something missing in his life and that he just connected to Judaism. He said that his family was very supportive of this. More about his regular life, he is a lawyer for entrepreneurs. He also said that the nine of them had no idea that we were coming, so when they were reciting the Sh'ma, it made them a little nervous, and they still did great. After a really yummy dinner, with some coaxing, we danced and sang Hebrew songs with the community. As more people joined and the group got louder, even more congregant joined. It was so fun and even though there was a language barrier, it didn't feel like it because we were able to be connected through our Judaism and the language of Hebrew. 


Dancing and Singing at Beit Warshawa

 Organizing warm and Fuzzies at the Hotel

On Saturday, we got to sleep in and relax and we had a really chill creative service that I thought was extremely meaningful. Dani, Logan, Kate and I led it, and integrated warm and fuzzies (cute and meaningful notes) into the service. We also had a bunch of different secular songs that connected to the core meaning of each important prayer.

The whole program with Wladislaw Hostickzo

Later on, we got to meet Wladislaw Hostickzo, who is of the Righteous Among the Nations, or somebody who risked their life in order to save a Jew/s. Wladislaw told us about how him and his family were able to save a girl, named Edcie. During the time, he lived in East Poland, which was taken over by the Soviets. His father was a soldier in the Polish army and they owned a farm in a village that they went to for vacations and holidays. He told us about how Edcie was friends with his sister, and her family had previously owned a grocery store in the town. Edcie's family was Jewish, however she did not look Jewish by race and was able to pass as Polish. When the Nazi's began creating and rounding people into ghettos, her family was brought to one in Alexandria where she worked for the commandant, and therefore was given better treatment. One day, the Nazi's told her that she could run away and they wouldn't look or punish her. She went to her family, who were not allowed to escape, and they told her to go and live, so she ran away back to her village where she went from house to house looking for shelter. During this time, a Ukrainian soldier stopped her and informed German soldiers that she was a Jew, but they were fighters and not Gestapo, so she was able to convince them that she was not a Jew. After this, she was able to escape to a different village, which is where Wladislaw's small family farm was and goes to their house, where his mom opens the door and lets her in. They kept her in their house where they made a dug out behind the wardrobe where she slept and stayed in during the day in order for her to stay hidden. A little later on, the family arranged for her to stay and work at a larger farm and taught her christian prayers so that she would fit in. This is when Wladislaw was only 13 years old and walked her through the fields and forest to this new farm. She stayed at this new farm until 1943, when Polish people were being attacked , but she survived and in 1944 when the Nazi's were pushed west, she miraculously was abkle to meet up with her only living relative, a sister who fled before the war started. After she survived the war, Edcie lived in warsaw and was a law student and in 1955 married a Polish officer. However, her hardships did not stop there, because in 1968 a new wave of antisemitism arrived, and in turn, her Polish citizenship was taken away, and she and her husband moved to England. She stayed in London for the rest of her life, where Wladislaw was able to visit her in the 1980s for the first time in about 40 years. In the 1980's, both her sister and husband died, which is when she also went to memorialize her family at the Yad Vashem institute, and said that she "Never would be able to repay what his family did for her" which is how they were recognized as Righteous among the nations. She died in 2007, but her story lives on through Wladislaw and those he tells his story to.

Wladislaw Hostickzo's Medal for being a Righteous Among Nations

So Kitat Maayan, my question for you is: if you were living during the shoah, or a a time of major persecution, would you help someone who is being persecuted against, even if it might endanger yourself?

Comments

  1. I wish I could say that I am someone who would help the persecuted, but I truly just don't know. I hope I would. However, family and friends are so very important to me. I would put my own life at risk to help others, but I am not sure about my family's. If it would only affect me to help others, I would full heartedly, but the lives of people who I care about are at risk as well.

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  2. I would love to say that I would put my own life in danger to save someone else’s. I think it is a beautiful concept. I wish I was that selfless. But it’s hard to say whether or not I would put my own life and my families life at stake. I couldn’t see myself putting my families life in danger. I could my own, but not my family.

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  3. I want to say that I would help someone and as many people as possible.. However I don't know what it was actually like during that time and how big the dangers really were. I also wouldn't be able to put my family's life's at risk for almost anyone. I think I would put my own life at risk but I'm not sure if I could sacrifice my family for someone.

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  4. I Would love to say that I would be first in line to take in someone who escaped during the Shoah. However, knowing that my family and I could all be killed, I don’t think I’d have the guts to risk it and take the chance

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  5. I don't think I can actually answer that question with full certainty, since I will never be able to fully imagine what it was like to live in the Shoah. I hope that if I did I would have not hesitated to take someone in, while knowing the incredible risks involved. However, keeping those risks in mind I have no idea if I'd have the ability to do such a thing. I think to say for a fact that I would is incredibly ignorant because it's as if I was saying that I can fully imagine and survive the horrors during the time. Also, it makes those who weren't able to take action whether it was because they couldn't or they didn't know about what was happening during the Shoah seem like awful people. None of us have the place to judge the actions taken at the time because there were very different circumstances.

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  6. As a lot of you know, I don't like being forced to do anything. Be it having to get up at 7:45 or shunning an entire ethnic group, and supporting the systematic killing of them. Out of spite, just to go against what I'm supposed to, I would definitely harbor fugitives or fight the government. Not really for any ideological or moral reason, just because I don't like getting told what to do.

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  7. I would try my hardest to save people being persecuted in any situation, but I would not force the risk upon others. For example, if someone in my family did not want to save people because of the risk to their own life, I could never make that choice for them by harboring people myself. However, I am from a family that I truly believe would have tried to save as many people as positive, although I can never know for certain.

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  8. At current moment in my life I would do anything to protect others. That said, living under the Nazi Regime might bring out my own fear to do what I see as right. My ideology would tell me to do what is right but when actually faced with a dire circumstance, I might crack under the pressure.

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  9. In truth, I would have a severe inner struggle with my self. If I saw a group of people being massacred daily, I would only be afraid to help them in fear of meeting the same fate. I could not put me or my family at risk and take in an "enemy of the state" as a member of the household unless I knew it was safe for them and me. Of course I would not hate anyone for their religious beliefs or cultural backgrounds, but I strongly doubt that I could put another person's life over the life of my whole family even how selfish that may sound.

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  10. My family would have helped, especially my mom who would do anything to help others. It is a very important mitzva to treat others the way you want to be treated, and that mitzva has a very big role in my family. Helping other people during the Holocaust is a risky act-and back then it was way more serious. But seeing what was happening I would have wanted to help- any way would've worked, even by giving someone a cup of water, it didn't have to be necessarily a shelter, it is important to help on the level you can, and if that is the only way it is possible for you- it is still a mitzva.

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  11. To not help someone who is in the place of being prosecuted against would simply go against my morals. I personally don't understand how people just sat back during the holocaust...I think about the slave trade that is currently going on in Libya a lot, and I just can't bear to think about it. I wish I could go there and help but I don't even live there and it's to dangerous to go. It is sad that there are still people being sold like they are animals, and the world is so silent, but cares about what Kim Kardashian wears to a red carpet event. The world is a crazy place, with a lot of cruel components to it, but so much beauty. I think helping someone who isn't your race/religion etc. but being prosecuted is a beautiful thing. Also the guy that we talked to in Poland the R.A.N just made me feel like I would help someone 10000 times more. He was so sweet!

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